Writing Erotica: How Much Detail is Too Much?

When I write my erotica it’s almost exclusively about BDSM and the loving bond between two people that can and does form when they enter into a relationship with such values. I also aim to write realistically, but how much detail is too much?

What Is Edge Play? (Why I Practice + Write it)

After the entire train wreck that was 50 Shades of Grey I decided there were a few things I could do about it. Either I could bitch and moan about how that whole series is a blemish on the ass of the BDSM universe or I could start putting out my own material